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麦田的守望者November 27 年冬总结近日身体欠佳，面目可憎，心态浮躁，言语索然无味，碎碎念如怨妇，翻出一些温暖的老电影和亲切的书。  On the current post: I was as helpless as the female victim of an arranged marriage who, upon first seeing the horrible visage of her chosen mate at the wedding night, shrieks in vain.The contractual relationship is the moral precepts embodied in the very system that bounds your feet. No fairy tale or Mr Right's Salvation. You gotta cast away illusions and tough it up. 在此衷心感谢关心支持我的亲人、同学、朋友和师长。 养病期间抛砖引玉推荐: 建外SOHO Library Coffee,华贸读易洞,三里屯Bookworm,西山庭院万圣书苑,蓝羊书坊,三味书屋,雨枫书店,单向街,五道口光合作用,雕光金融街三层,南锣鼓巷三棵树,成贤街喜鹊,北大二教,清华六教。专注而安静是多么美好的事
November 10 For My CDFLS为避免He Xie本文主要采用英语请大家见谅
Through privatizing the primary and secondary education sectors, Mr 1.5 billion established himself on Hurun Fortune 100 list. Notwithstanding, Mr 1.5 billion's staggering primitive accumulation of capital struck me as opportunistic and problematic.Seemingly venerable, abridging teachers' contractual welfares and continuous raise of tuition/fees is by no means a healthy and sustainable business strategy. I certainly don't have to lecture to Mr 1.5 Billion how 黄光裕 ended up in jail.
 The parents have trusted Mr1.5 Billion with their baby daughters n sons.By putting their kids in the blue-blood boarding school,they have all reasons to expect a if not extraodinary but satisfactory education service.Remember, It's an investment not a trade! As a legitimate party involved, it's causing their financial detriment and emotional distress as well.For parents who daydream about sending their genius kids to Harvard College out from here,I'd say:"No Offense, Mr 1.5 Billion's CDFLS is no Stuyvesant material these days."And I'm rather amazed why Ms Harvard College Gal's mom got her tongues tied?Maybe too busy managing her royalty account. Ethically speaking,such reprehensible deeds stained the ivory tower and brought disgrace to the entire crew dedicated to it.Teachers should be fully respected and compensated,treated decently as community members if not preferably as big investors. On Local Pay-check Media:Shame on you!It's totally understandable that you wanna stay alive(The local authorities were afraid that the political incorrectness draws BJ's attention, when the educational reform's about to be introduced)However, you should not feel explicitly flattered to be on the same boat with Mr 1.5 billion(who think he could kick everyone's ass in CD. He did treat CD like some backward village that He can have the final say). Like a first grader mysteriously befriended by the schoolyard bully,you guys tend to overlook the flaws of the richest in exchange for their protection.I've attached Journalist Creed for ur basic knowledge,Show some guts n wits! http://journalism.missouri.edu/about/creed.html
August 11 This is the Best of Time,This is the worst of Time迟到的日志，不是因为学习语言日益感到表达的贫乏抑或感情的枯竭，而是整日忙忙碌碌没有安全感的焦虑和衰老
1..Feb-May 温情的大四下-White Picket Fence Life
初来乍到2个星期，上课(应付Reputably-demanding的作业考试+穿着havaianas拖鞋课间飞奔于教室间),做饭(红烧牛肉、可乐鸡翅、猪肉丸子汤、泡豇豆肉渣渣、葱油饼，厨艺得到大家认可),图书馆(Library17寸大白陪伴),食堂(吃不完的Time-Out点数换Cheese Cake+免费Starbucks),健身房(超五星Grotto,PLASMA TV跑步机,免费SPA)，On-line Shopping(Personal Fiance作业+抗Monthly Stipend贬值的懒人方法)，周末一部电影，每月一次出游，很满足很安心很有禅意。 身在美国，所谓围城，皆是不甘寂寞，心中有挂。排除各种带有符号意义的ranking/judging/scoring,坦诚对待自己心中的感受,建立独立强大不浮躁的幸福观,不论：美国、中国/亚洲、欧洲、非洲、澳洲、拉美洲，公务员、国企、外企、银行、律所、媒体/事业单位，城头or乡下，名校烂专业or烂校好专业，有钱or没钱，海边、沙漠、森林、盆地，so long you choose your life, 活出自己的style，大家同样很精彩~ 2.March Happy的西游记+把Finance冷战思维教授当成了Moot Court的对方辩友 Mr ATJ, Third,Regarding the "Communist Economy"teaching in class.Apart from a one-party political system(which econ-model Singapore and Japan used to have) and certain State-Owned enterprises ,China's economy has seen huge income gap and horrible redistribution since early 1990s (way too "capitalistic" compared to US nowadays). Best, 3.June:毕业留念 The Road Not Taken By Robert Frost Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, Then took the other, as just as fair And both that morning equally lay I shall be telling this with a sigh
4.July:最神秘的部门-有关部门 “一大堆事情都八字一撇了，但是就是不敲定，要不就是一边学校催着去，这边学校死拖着不让走；要不就是这样材料那样材料，收钱的都敢跟顾客跩了；要不就是搬家没着落，一屋子的东西看着就烦；要不就是签个东西拖死你，有些单位官僚死了，非拖得你一面求他一面找人压他，动不动就把人往DEADLINE上逼，给了单子非不给回执，坚定地要你再跑一次；要么就是某人几次打电话，问，你回来吧，当你说好呀，我下周回去行不，然后对方说，你要回来？再想想，别急着回……正所谓软硬加施，折磨致死。”----摘自CXX日志
4.August:奥运一周年战友录 “QQ上遇到故友，问我，还记得去年我们这个时间在干什么么。必然记得啊，8月8日下午早早的就放了,差点坐不上奥运2号专线的末班车。一个人安静地呆在空旷的中戏宿舍楼里，对自己说那是我在这个面朝苍老而敦厚的胡同的寝室里，最后的一个夏天。8月9日的，暴雨，拿着塑料布在看台上套音箱，全身都湿透了，观众服务的志愿者们都来帮忙，花花绿绿的全是一次性雨衣。应急预案被细心的文编藏在怀里，小心地裹在雨衣里，满场串找主任签字，依然被沾湿了，墨迹点点滴滴晕开，边角微微上卷。头发散乱地裹在帽子里，基本算面目狰狞，运动鞋里都是水，袜子冰凉，长裤裤腿湿了，就拆一半，当短裤穿。不论是志愿者还是我们这种伪志愿者，都是了不起的孩子们。你对自己说，再不赶紧开幕就要烦死累死恶心死人了，但是当他真正开幕的时候，你忽然发现自己内心还是充满的激动和兴奋。这种认认真真全力以赴做一件事情的感觉回忆起来令人崩溃也令人温暖，尤其是当你变得逐渐开始对所有事情都极力漫不经心的时候。那种年轻时单纯认真的感觉令你感动不已。”--摘自青春纪念册
May 04 春天来了艳照门，看人家毕业找工作，五毒（独）俱全，奥组委，CPI，股市,悲情的连续剧。。。。。
貌似2008的世界变化得超出我非智力范围，
不过，借着春暖花开，我始终坚信：积极生活的主动权掌握在自己手中！！
所以，as long as 朋友们 exist，即使在这样艰苦的条件下，发挥劳动人民集体智慧的结晶，照样能把清明,五一过得快乐有趣~
March 08 女生节or女人节快乐三~感谢毛爷爷对封建社会的颠覆，在male-dominated的世界里面，小半边天们今天是格外的张牙舞爪，
中友可爱的imi's、aimer、esprit、pierre cardin的langerie都在打折，
国图看电影可以一拖二，Pubs的Ladies' Night也有免费的Champagne~社会主义好啊！！
用黑cute的祝福短信传达happy心情：
2008年,你的目标是要学会和男人和谐相处： 有才华的当顾问，长得帅的当情人，赚钱多的当相公，能顾家的作老公，靠得住的作知己，智商高的作孩子他爸。。。(我想：有没有6合一的喃？) 在3.8妇女节来临之际，向长期战斗在试衣间、看韩剧、不做饭、魅力十足并掌控老公钱包的杰出女性们致以节日的问候！（我觉得掌握男人也是一门伟大的事业~） 祝所有姐妹们三围魔鬼化，收入白领化，家务甩手化，快乐日常化，爱情持久化，情调小资化，购物疯狂化，情人规模化，老公奴隶化！（我觉得这个是毕生奋斗的目标！）  P.S:图为妇联标志December 27 Merry X'mas and Happy New Year惊叹于iBT抢号的状况，连续两天刷爆屏。 这证实了ETS's outrageous reputation for being Non-Profit 结论：有史以来最赚闲钱的是垄断NGO,i.e:少林寺。 不知道自己是被主流放逐了or else，对最近比较红的《奋斗》很是不感冒。 惊叹于编剧的想象力，个人认为：陆涛（佟大为）本人无才亦无貌，自负而且自私，靠老爸发家（尽管他不承认）、周旋于两个女人之间（又是最好的朋友）的生活轨迹居然被推崇为“奋斗”，真是超级无敌瀑布汗，对中国特色鲜明的当红偶像连续剧再次失望。。。。。 电影《色戒》确实震撼 ，不过排除最失败的角色--ABC+Hip Hop+做作懦弱的爱国帅哥王力宏（汪精卫年轻的时候也是愤青），有两种矛盾的感觉： 1。戒色版暗示女人是可以用钻戒（〉=六克拉）收买的 2。完整版从男人的逻辑假设：女人的感情通过sex可以培养 个人浅薄的观点，还是应该人文关怀一下张爱玲原著中隐约体现"about 胡兰成"的痛楚~~ 根据九重天朱大仙的分析，本人2007命相凶险。事实证明自己确实Procrastinated了些许重要的事情。不想再在北京耽误下去了，直接回家吃爸妈做的菜，期盼逢凶化吉，流年顺利，顺祝大家期末都考好~~ P.S：照片为陪伴我的小朋友们+外交红色娘子军团圣诞夜游 December 02 安心劳民伤财的测试赛终于结束，撤回了被朋友评为“年度十佳签名“的（珍爱生命，远离Olympics）,觉得自己抵抗糖衣炮弹如同抵抗水痘一样顽强，严辞拒绝了团队两日温泉游的福利诱惑，安安心心的赶作业、上课、补瞌睡。 感谢陈区区同学推荐的《结婚》。日本的剧本成熟干净，人艺班的表演清新自然，音乐和舞美都很温馨，女人、家庭、婚姻。很适合在这个冬天和女友们一起看~~~~ 我本不是Feminist,也不想碎碎念惹人心烦，只是知道，我和姐姐都在夏子离家去法国的时候开始哭得稀里哗啦的。选择背井离乡、离开父母的我们，除了脆弱的“坚强”以外，还应该有自己实在的信仰和空间，才能成为离开的意义吧。。。
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